Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Facebook Addict Disorder


MANILA - Facebook users beware. Psychologists are now probing a new kind of addiction called Facebook Addiction Disorder (FAD).
Psychologist Dr. Michael Fenichel, who has published numerous writings on FAD online, describes it as a situation in which Facebook usage "overtakes" daily activities like waking up, getting dressed, using the telephone, or checking e-mail.
"The amazing thing is that, like cellphones, nobody seems to notice the vast amount of time and energy - at work, at home, and now while on the move - people are devoting to Facebook. It has become a given," Fenichel writes in an online post titled "Facebook Addiction Disorder- A New Challenge?"
FAD could be classified under the more broad "internet addiction disorder" or internet overuse.
Academic papers have already posed theories on internet addiction and social networking addiction, and even less, cellphone addiction.
"Like most activities, moderation and integration are key. Those that may seriously label and treat FAD as a behavioral addiction will clearly need to use context in determining if a behavior has become demonstrably harmful to overall social, work, or face-to-face interpersonal efficacy," Fenichel added.
You are a Facebook addict if...
According to Joanna Lipari, a clinical psychologist at the University of California, Los Angeles who was interviewed for a CNN report, here are some signs that you are addicted to Facebook:
1. You lose sleep over Facebook. When using Facebook becomes a compulsion and you spend entire nights logged on to the site, causing you to become tired the next day.
2. You spend more than an hour a day on Facebook. Lipari said it is difficult to define how much is too much when it comes to Facebook usage, but that an average person need only spend half an hour on the site.
3. You become obsessed with old loves or exes you reconnect with on Facebook.
4. You ignore work in favor of Facebook. This means you do not do your job in order to sneak time on Facebook.
5. The thought of getting off Facebook leaves you in cold sweat. If you try going a day without Facebook and it causes you stress and anxiety, this means you need help.
According to the same report by Elizabeth Cohen, Senior CNN Medical Correspondent, Facebook addiction is not yet an actual medical diagnosis.
However, the report notes that several therapists in the United States have noticed a rise in the number of clients who get hooked on social networking, to the point of social dysfunction.
Facebook fun
Facebook, launched by the world's youngest billionaire Mark Zuckerberg, has over 300 million users worldwide, half of whom log on to the site every day.
Further, about 2 billion photos and 14 million videos are uploaded on various Facebook pages a month and about 6 billion minutes are spent on Facebook a day, worldwide.
According to Willis Wee, founder of the social media and marketing blog Penn-Olson.com, this is twice as much time that people spend on Google.
The global social networking website allows users to post and share content (like photos, links, videos, and notes), play casual games and applications, and interact with friends and family through messaging and chat. abs-cbnNEWS.com. With reports from CNN.com.


Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Rules of Attraction

Rules of Attraction:

1. Proximity - Kung sinong mas malapit dun ka posibleng mainlove, eg. classmate, friend.

2. Similarity - When you share common interests mas marami kayong pwedeng pag - usapan.

3. Physical Attraction - Syempre dun sa maganda/ gwapo ka maattract!

4. Reciprocity - more likely than not, dun ka magkakagusto sa taong alam mo nang in love sa ýo to avoid rejection.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Letting go



Ang hirap i-express ng nararamdaman ko ngayon. Blanko ang isip ko pero para bang napakabigat ng puso ko. Naka ilang bura na din ako dito sa sinusulat ko na ito dahil walang lumalabas na salita kung ano ba talaga ang tunay kong nararamdaman. Sa ngayon gulong-gulo ang isip ko di ko din alam kung pano susulusyonan ang mga bagay-bagay. This past few days napakaraming problema na dumating sa akin na di karaniwan sa mga nangyari sa akin noon.

Minsan akala natin kaya na nating solusyonan lahat kasi sa dami ba naman ng pinagdaanan ko sa buhay feeling ko na lahat kaya ko na.Pero bakit pag dating na sa may mawawala at kailangan nyong maghiway napakahirap.

Kung bakit ba naman kasi kailangan pang may nawawala, bakit kailangan may nagpapaalam, bakit minsan kung sino pa yung tao na nasa puso mo unti-unting nawawala isa-isa.

Bakit minsan kailangang mag isa.

I will miss you both and promise to be there for you hanggat kaya ko.

I will always be your "ATE CHI"


Friday, October 2, 2009

Photoshop

Photoshop by: Sherwin Calalang







Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Bestfriend



Sometimes falling in love with someone is not a vice versa feeling. May mga pagkakataon na nagbibigay tayo ng pagmamahal sa isang tao pero in reality kahit kelan hindi magiging kayo. Dahil isang tao lang ang nagmamahal, dahil ang kaya nya lang ibigay sa 'yo is just friendship. Masakit kaya lang talagang ganun. Maybe you're not meant to be. Maybe mas bagay lang talaga kayo bilang magkaibigan lang. Siguro lang din minsan pinahihirapan lang natin ang sarili natin dahil ang totoo namimis interpret lang natin ang feelings natin sa isang tao...Actually I had a friend in college na talagang bestfriends ang turingan nila. Sabihan ng problema, kabiguan sa buhay, etc..etc..Kaya lang dumating sila sa point na ewan ko ba. Friends lang ba talaga. Siguro nga kasi di naman naging sila. Misinterpretation lang ng feelings kasi masyado na silang naging close pero that's it. Friendship lang talaga.

"Don't nurture the feelings" yun ang sabi ng iba. Cause if you continously nurture it patuloy at patuloy mo lang na sasaktan at papahirapan ang sarili mo. How can you love someone or give yourself to someone if he is not willing to give a special love for you in return? You continously hurting yourself. Don't waste your emotion to someone who is not willing to love you.

Monday, September 28, 2009

Together

After Ne-yo's "Miss Independent" here comes "Together" this is one of Ne-yo's great song. The Beat was so cool and I really love the message.Can't help but falling in love with this song.


Together by: Neyo

Ohhh .... Ohhh ...
Yeah Yeah Ohhh .... Yeahh

Since the day that we met girl
I aint never had anyone make me feel this way
And my heart is sure it wants to be with you
Wanna give you the whole world oh
If you make the promise to me, You're gonna stay
Without you guiding me, I'm lost and so confused

What will it take to show you I'll be by your side
Girl I got you and I want to give you what you never had
Girl everyday I hope to make you part of my life
Cause you know me and I know you girl your love is where it's at

ohhh...

I'm gonna be the love that's gonna last
And be the one that got your back
Ain't nothing ever that bad that we won't be together
And though we both made our mistakes
And some we never wish we made
But we'll be okay if we just stay together

Oooh..

I know he left you stranded
And you paid the price when you messed up your life oh
girl I know you're so afraid
But I can't right the wrongs he did
I know you saw the lipstick on my window
And wonder'n how many chick's been to my home
I've done my share of playing games
But for you I given up that life

What will it take to show you I'll be by your side
Girl I got you and I want to give you what you never had
Girl everyday I hope to make you a part of my life
Cause you know me and I know you
Girl your love is where it's at

ohhh...

I'm gonna be the love that's gonna last
And be the one that got your back
Ain't nothing ever that bad that we won't be together
And though we both made our mistakes
And some we never wish we made
But we'll be okay if we just stay together

Baby you're the one I've waited for
Because you gave me what I need and more
Girl Its clear that we are meant to be
Together, We should be together ....
Eternally


Ohhh...

Girl I'm gonna be
I'm gonna be the love that's gonna last
And be the one that got your back (The one that got your back)
Ain't nothing ever that bad that we won't be together
And though we both made our mistakes
And some we never wish we made (never wish we made)
But we'll be okay if we just stay together(just stay with me)

(Everything Gonna Be Alright)
I'm gonna be the love that's gonna last
And be the one that got your back
Ain't nothing ever that bad that we won't be together
And though we both made our mistakes
And some we never wish we made
But we'll be okay if we just stay together

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Caleruega with typhoon Ondoy



One month ago I got a memo that we will be having a retreat/ seminar "Pathway to Interdependence" at Caleruega, Nasugbu , Batangas Sept. 25 - 26. I was thinking then kung sasama nga ako or not. But my subordinates and my friends told me to go. There is nothing to lose naman daw and pwedeng makagain din ako..So I decided to go..One day before the retreat I should be preparing my things kaya lang sobrang tinatamad akong sumama.Instead of packing my things, I'm thinking of the best reason to back out.Kaya lang ganun din kasi isasama din nila ako sa 2nd batch.Eh better on the 1st batch kasi atleast medyo mas ok ang kasama ko sa 1st batch.Nakakatawa pa we had our meting at board room 11 am.Ang nakakatuwa nakalimutan ko.sinundo pa ako ni tita Myna sa canteen just to attend the meeting.Kakahiya tuloy

Our assembly time was 5am but ang unfortunately Rain slept at 12am. Di ko maayus yung things ko kasi makikita ni Rain, baka lalong hindi matulog so I woke up at 3:30am cause I still need to fix my things.So 3 1/2 hrs lang ang tulog ko.I packed all the stuff and take a bath so nagmadali ako to meet the assembly time.Medyo late because nakarating ako sa pascual at 5:10am.May mga na late din so nakaalis kami at 5:50am. Masaya din on the way to Batangas.Di din ako nakatulog kasi nagkwentuhan kami ni Naneth the whole trip.Nag stop over kami sa shell sa may SLEX to ate our breakfast. So para maiba naman nag breakfast kami sa jolibee hahaha the usual longganiza ang friedrice plus hot choco.After the breakfast takbo na ulit to batangas.When we get there (Caleruega), napaka ganda ng place very peaceful, relaxing, napakaganda talaga.We had fun taking pictures over and over and over....After we ate our lunch at 1:30 nagsimula na yung retreat namin. Very interesting and I gained a lot on it. I gained friends and I gained knowledge

During our retreat ma ulan na.nag co cover na lang kami ng jacket kasi ala kaming payong.Nung madaling araw maybe at 2am lumakas pa syang lalo as if wala na talagang paghinto hanggang umaga, hanggang habang nag retreat kami on our 2nd day.Maririrnig mo yung sipol ng hangin hampas ng hangin at ulan na napakalakas.Di din naman namin expected na grabe ang magiging resulta ng Bagyong Ondoy na ito.Kaya't nagbaka sakali pa din kami na umuwi ng bulacan 2pm when we left the place. Sobrang lakas na ng ulan noon to think na nasa upper place pa kami kasi ang Caleruega eh bundok.Habang daan sobrang natatakot ako kasi ang taas namin tapos sobrang lakas ng hangin pupwedeng matangay kami ng napakalakas na hangin shoot kami agad sa bangin, so they desided na yung 2 van na dala dala namin eh wag ng mag iwanan.At 5pm we were at Alabang dun na nagstart ang napakatagal na adventure namin.Ilang oras din kaming nastranded sa kahabaan ng Alabang, Paranaque hanggang sa makarating kami sa taguig at 11 pm dun kami nag dinner at dapan dun na din sana kami magpapalipas ng gabi we left the place at 12:30am dapat sana pupunta kami sa head office ng pascual sa may edsa kaya lang madami din kasi sa aming kasamahan ang sobrang nasalanta ng bagyo tulad ni sir joel na nalubog ang bahay sa baha at tanging bubong na lang ang nakita, si sir bong na nalubog din sa baha ang kanyang sasakyan at tanging bubong na lang din ang kita at si mam bessie na hanggang leeg ang baha sa kanila 2 sasakyan nya ang nalubog sa baha maging ang kanyang mga kasangkapan.Kayat nagdeside na makipagsapalaran na papuntang bulacan.pagmulat ng aking mata nasa balintawak na kami sabi sa toll gate hanggang marilao lang daw ang mga sasakyan sinuuong namin iyon at nakarating kami ng marilao at 3:00am from 3:00am nahintay na kami kung kelan pwede nang daanan ang lugar we left the place at 6:00am until we reached tabang exit at 8:00am.Pagdating namin ng tuktukan at around 8:30am we noticed that most of the vehicles stop and lahat din ay umiikot pabalik so namroblema na naman ako pano ako makakauwi sa bahay kasi yung tubig sa south super market ay hanggang sa bewang and sa bayan daw ng balagtas hanggang dibdib.hay naku sobra-sobra na 'tong adventure na nangyari sa akin.Nkauwi ako sa bahay at 10:00am I walked from tuktukan to our house na ang baha eh hanggang bewang without noticing yung dumi ng tubig.kasi I wanted to go home and be with my baby.

Ang dami kong natutunan with this experience na pag ang Diyos ang gumawa ng paraang upang tayo ay maparusahan isang pitik lang wala tayong magagawa magugunaw nya ang mundo ng ganun kabilis

Let us all reflect with this calamity situation that we've been through. Why all of this things happened to us?

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